6th post

Tonight I have a sudden craving for Korean Maggie noodles but I'm lazy to cook after a Long day.

It reminds me of how my husband who used to be my boyfriend will help me cook a bowl of noodles with egg or even go to extend to tapow supper for me (When I was pregnant).

It saddens me a little to think of how things between us used to be. Relaxing, carefree, no commitment, no responsibilities for almost everything, Netflix every night, cheating mc, supper, movies marathon and so much more...

I tried to be positive by not thinking so far but sometimes it's just so difficult not to think this way. I don't think anyone or even my husband will understand or even thought of I actually changed alot.

Sometimes, I don't think he has ever appreciated what I did as he thinks I am supposed to be doing all these works.

This conversation is with Leia before sleep..

M: I love you so much Leia.
L: I love you so much mummy.
M: why do you love mummy? (I'm trying to ask if she understands)
L: hmm..hmm...because you're my favourite. (She is saying it with a smile)

This sentence is more than what I need.

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